Tips to help men masturbate sounds like the beginning of a joke. But what isn’t funny is this misconception that all men are horn dogs who just need a jar of Vaseline and their right hands to have a good time.

Men, like women, are sexually complex. Achieving stronger, more powerful orgasms requires more than a basic technique. If the lube and jerk works for you, great – but maybe, just maybe, there’s a better way.

By masturbating, we’re fulfilling a …

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Some women still have trouble masturbating. Not because they aren’t sexual beings, or don’t like sex, but for a variety of reasons. Some women, no matter how much they try to think otherwise, are conditioned from a young age to find masturbation ‘dirty.’ This ‘unclean’ practice is a source of shame and guilt, and that emotional blackmail causes a big mental roadblock.

For those who don’t have mental issues with masturbation, they often simply have trouble finding the right tool to get the job …

Vibrators are like snowflakes: no two are alike, and each are beautiful in their own right. Don’t believe me? You obviously haven’t embraced shopping for one. An experience like no other, that first trip to the adult toy store can be as memorable as your first Barbie or G.I. Joe (we reject gender biases) your parents bought you.

Choosing the right toy can, however, seem daunting, particularly if you haven’t taken the time to educate yourself. Like any consumer purchase, there is no ‘best’ vibrator – …

Men do it, women do it, even extremely famous celebrities do it?

No matter how many inroads are made to the public about sexual awareness and eliminating the feeling of shame that overwhelms some due to their own urges or desires, the sex toy industry still finds itself fighting an uphill battle of misunderstanding, repression, and embarrassment. People are still worried they will be judged for getting a helping hand because it runs on batteries, or afraid that if their secret habit is found out, they’ll be viewed as dirty or perverted.

But …

Do you want to be LARGER?

Sounds familiar, doesn’t it? You’ve probably got dozens of emails in your spam folder with subject lines just like this one. Chances are there’s a myriad of preposterous ways being advertised to increase the size of what God gave you – supplements and pills, creams, and insane devices designed to stretch, nurture, or cajole your penis into growing.

Some men are even tempted by the idea of a mythical surgery that will add inches onto the length of their member. What the surgery pitches don’t …

Ask any single lady out there what her best friend is, and she’ll tell you it’s that certain something she keeps in a drawer. And if she doesn’t, she’s probably lying, or enjoys special time with her showerhead.

Where women vary is in what type of ‘friend’ they prefer to keep on hand at all times. The top two most popular sex toys for women are the dildo, and the vibrator. (For argument’s sake, let’s not get into vibrating dildos for the time being, …

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Lean in real close; it’s going to blow your mind.

Women like to masturbate just as much as men do. Don’t shake your head like that! It’s the straight truth, directly from the source. The only difference between the sexual drive of a man and the sexual drive of a woman is the influence society has had on both. Men are expected to think about sex twenty-four hours a day, it gets hard wired into their brains by the time puberty …

The Kama Sutra. The Indian Art of Love. The ultimate sexual how-to text. Whatever you call it, the Kama Sutra has been everything from a manual to a conversational ice breaker since it gained notoriety in popular culture.

Most people identify the Kama Sutra with illustrations of various sexual positions, but few realize that the contents are actually broke into seven sections, only the second of which actually describing sixty-four unique sexual acts. It also goes on to detail how the art of kissing, caressing, biting, and …

Let’s face it, girls: keeping your husband happy isn’t always the number one priority it should be. We’re busy, life keeps us busy, and his needs can often fall by the wayside. However, you don’t necessarily have to invest a lot of time into keeping the hubby happy, so long as the time you do invest is quality time.

Ask him what he likes.

Trust me when I say most guys are more than happy to tell you – in detail – exactly what they do and don’t like that you’re …