When most people think about sex toys, they believe that only the lonely use them. Vibrators are for a woman who wants to get off when she doesn’t have a man around while men use a variety of masturbatory aids when they feel horny and had no luck at the club that night.

This couldn’t be further from the truth, however. While many people use sex toys for masturbation, many couples indulge in these fun gadgets to enhance foreplay and intercourse. Vibrators, massage oils, and fetish kits can keep things interesting in the bedroom and help couples avoid sexual ruts.

I know what a lot of you men are thinking. “I’m not bringing a vibrator into MY bed!” You think that the mechanical penis is going to replace your man meat, but that’s not the case. While a woman will resort to a good rabbit or cyberskin vibrator when she requires some sexual release on those cold, lonely nights, she’ll prefer a real man between her sheets (and legs) any night of the week. But that doesn’t mean that a good vibrator can’t join in on the fun with the two of you to enhance your lovemaking escapades.

Foreplay

A great place to start using sex toys is during foreplay. Use a vibrator, egg or bullet to tickle and tease her labia and clitoris, or insert it occasionally to make her moan. A great foreplay vibrator is a waterproof vibe, such as the Playful Pets or the Luv Touch Flexa Pleaser. These can be used in the shower, hot tub, pool, or bath. So while you’re soaking wet and soaping each other up, grab a vibrator to tease and please her.

What do ladies do to please their men during foreplay? Many women enjoy stroking their man’s penis, or fully jerking them off. Change things up a bit in this department. Men have sex toys as well, and using them during foreplay can actually be a lot of fun. Masturbators are designed to simulate the feeling of a real vagina, mouth, or anus. Lubricate one of these bad boys up and stroke your man’s penis during foreplay. He will go crazy!

While vibrators and fake orifices are a lot of fun, never underestimate the power of a sensual massage with warming oils or a session of licking and teasing with edible body paints such as the Kama Sutra Lover’s Paintbox. Also, if you enjoy tasty treats and oral sex is on the menu for this evening’s foreplay activities, try a flavored lubricant for additional pleasure. Wouldn’t it be nice if his penis or her vagina could taste like strawberries?

Speaking of lubricants…

Penetration and Intercourse

Lubricants are excellent sexual enhancers during foreplay, but especially during intercourse. If any of you ladies have a tiny bit of trouble getting wet, don’t fret. There are many different varieties of lubricants out there to assist you, such as Moist Free! (glycerine free) and Moist Gel, a thicker lubricant that can also be used during anal play. Use these during intercourse or to enhance the pleasure of the sex toys during foreplay.

Now that you’re all wet, wild and ready for some good old fashioned penetration, you probably think it’s time to put the toys away. Not so! We’re just getting started!

Believe it or not, there are a variety of sex toys out there that are designed specifically for use during intercourse for extra stimulation. Vibrating cock rings, like Cock Ring Cuties, are slipped on the penis and enhance pleasure for both the man and the woman during penetration.

Many couples enjoy using eggs or bullets during sex to enhance clitoral stimulation. However, it can be cumbersome to use some of these as holding one in place while you’re attempting to make love makes things a bit difficult. It kills the mood a bit. However, there are bullets that are designed to attach to the penis, such as the Berman Aurora Intimate Partners Kit. The bullet slides into a plastic ring that fits onto the penis, allowing for hands free clitoral stimulation. Allow your hands to roam your lover’s body while still getting the additional pleasure of a bullet vibrator. Mmmmmm…..

The Big Finish

In a perfect world, men and women would always come together. Simultaneous orgasm would be a frequent, if not constant, occurrence. Alas, this is not the case. It’s an unfortunate situation, but real just the same. But we don’t have to leave our partners unsatisfied simply because we came before they did, right?

Dildos have a place in the couple’s bed as well. She thought she was closer to orgasm than she was, and you came before her. What should you do? Reach over and grab a sexy g-spot dildo and finish her off while stroking her clitoris and labia with your fingers. You could even go further, using something like a rabbit vibrator or a strap-on dildo to help her achieve an intensely pleasing orgasm. You can still make her arch her back, grab the sheets, and scream your name during every single bedroom romp, as long as you’re willing to be creative and indulge in a little bit of playtime fun and sex toys.

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