No matter what sex toys you are using you will never replace the intimacy of a human touch, kiss, love and compassion. Some men may feel intimidated by a sex toy, especially if you purchase one that is larger then they are. An adult toy should only be used to accentuate and add passion and more fun into your relationship, not to replace you partner.
You may want to start off with a smaller size vibrators or dildos so that it does not intimate your partner. You can actually massage various areas of the body, don’t forget the lube or massage oils. After, your partner feels comfortable, and then slowly introduces your toy to new AREAS of their body, along with yours. Make them use the toy on different areas of your body! You may need to remind them this is to “Enhance” both sexuality and enjoyment, not to replace them.
One of the myths are if you use of adult toys, you will never want to go back to the real thing! A sex toy will never give you the loving gentle touch of human. Grant it, the use of a toy is wonderful, but it is not the same sensation of a human. You may love your sex toy, but it will never give you love!
A lot of couples use toys for foreplay, and for the sexual build up and then when they are both ready the couple enjoy an intensive explosive release. An adult sex toy is great to enhance any adult relationship, Again remind your partner it will never replace them.
Both of you have to respect each other in all that you may do sexual. If it hurts or if they are not enjoying what you’re doing then stop! To express your love comes in many ways, but if it hurts that’s not love!
Don’t forget the Lube to make it even better. Check out www.xtoysboutique.com for some great adult toys!
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