There are lots of misconceptions about sex, but the misconceptions about lesbian sex could fill an encyclopedia.
No, not every woman needs penetration to have a fulfilling orgasm.
No, needing penetration to have an orgasm does not make you straight.
Yes, lesbians do have a full, and completely fulfilling sex life. If a female lover does not satisfy you, chances are you are not a lesbian.
However, what lesbians have understood much faster, and much easier than heterosexual couples, is that even a healthy sexual relationship can always use a friendly helping hand!
Lesbians have been using dildos and vibrators to enhance their sex lives for ages now, and the invention of strap-on dildos allowed for the luxury of hands-free penetration, so loving fingertips can amuse themselves elsewhere.
Most people imagine lesbians having sex with lots of cunnilingus and little else. While oral sex is a big part of any lesbian’s bedroom time, the list of activities lesbians engage in is actually more varied than the average heterosexual couple’s. To avoid a rut, most lesbians will have more open minds about sex and sexuality, as well as better communication based on likes and dislikes. This communication makes for a healthier, more well rounded sex life.
While lesbians engage in dry humping (frottage), mutual masturbation, and fisting (the act of penetrating a lover’s vagina with your fist), lesbians also engage in intercourse quite frequently with the use of a strap on dildos, both vaginally and anally (depending, of course, on the preferences of your lover!).
Many lesbians also swear by the use of products such as clitoral stimulators, and vibrating dildos, for play. Some strap-on dildos offer clitoral stimulators built in, while others can be worn while using a vibrator designed specifically for couples, such as the We-Vibe, which allows for use with additional penetration from a dildo. Some women swear by owning two so they can each wear one during a variety of activities, from dry humping to mutual masturbation.
Sex toys aren’t a necessity for a healthy sex life, whether you’re bisexual, gay, or straight, but they can – and usually do – enhance the limitless pleasure your body is capable of feeling, as well as encourage a deeper trust and communication with your long time lover.
Or, they can aid you in a hell of a fun time with that sexy gal you picked up at the bar last night. If you’re gay and you feel strange about using adult toys to spice up your sex life, do some further reading on real stories of healthy, satisfied women just like you who’ve taken advantage of all the joys inherent in orgasms that run partially on batteries.
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