Sex is best when it’s wild, passionate, and spontaneous. Nothing revs the motor more than clothes being torn, bodies slammed up against walls or on top of tabletops, and caution thrown to the wind. Everyone has their favorite scenario for hot sex, but the one thing most scenarios have in common is the lack of thought or planning that go into the act itself. We want it hot, sticky, and we want it now.
The problem is, even though we’d rather not admit it, the best sex (to say nothing of the safest sex) comes with an ounce of preparation.
Nothing can break the mood faster than realizing one of you has to run to the drugstore for condoms, or you’re out of lube and those anal beads just aren’t going to make it on their own. Try giving a hot oil massage without hot oil, or having to improvise a strap on dildo. To say nothing of the mess you can make because you don’t have a clean set of sheets handy, or a conveniently located wastebasket to clean up after your sexual romp.
Since you don’t want to leave the planning ’til you’re in the middle of things, here’s a few tips for carefully calculating the perfect spontaneous sexual encounters.
You should always keep a tube of lube on hand and easily accessible – Moist Insertz are a great brand, as both anal and vaginal application is a breeze – along with a healthy store of condoms. Never make the mistake of underestimating the number of times you might need a latex friend.
A great mood enhancer is a slow, sensual massage. You can use the bottle of Jergens you keep by the bed, but if you want a more enthusiastic response, invest in something like the Sweet Celebration Box, which features a vanilla scented massage oil, edible body soufflé, and a lot more. It’s the perfect accessory to always have on hand, to pamper your lover and keep them begging for more.
An item it might be easy to overlook is your favorite sex toy. Whatever works the best – an egg vibe, or an anal plug; a strap-on dildo or the We-Vibe you like to use together – keep it somewhere within easy reach so you can have access to it if the mood should strike. Don’t have to slow down the action while you lumber into another room, or hunt through a closet for that special little friend that drives your lover wild.
For the practical side, keep towels and a wastebasket nearby, because the messier sex is to clean up, the better it was while you were having it!
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