
Size doesn’t matter.
If you have a below average sized penis, you’ve probably heard that a thousand times – from well meaning friends, sympathetic girlfriends, and perhaps not-so-nicely from a drunken one night stand or two. While anyone who’s watched porn can tell you that there are certain advantages to being well endowed, most of those advantages are psychological in nature. No truer test of that is the fact that a well hung man is not automatically a good lover.
By the same token, being endowment challenged isn’t the automatic bedroom strike out it can feel like at times. There’s a number of things you can do to please any partner regardless of the size of your equipment.
For starters, make sure you get her motor revving before actual intercourse commences. A well aroused, thoroughly prepared woman will find sex incredibly satisfying no matter what size the penis inside her is. The more you can make your woman pant for it, the bigger you’re going to feel when you actually begin to penetrate. Focus on the clitoris – does she like it rubbed, sucked, licked, teased, pinched – give her everything she wants and more. Use your mouth, your hands, your voice – anything and everything that will drive her out of her mind for you.
Foreplay is a good half of the battle, but if you find it isn’t winning the war, there are a few more things you can try.
Sexual positions can give you the illusion of greater size by increasing your depth. Doggie style or missionary, the important thing to do is raise her hips at an angle – ass high in the air doggie style, and pelvis arched high with her knees as close to her ears as they can get for missionary – and go to town.
Another position that will make you feel huge is to get your woman on her knees, press her thighs tightly together, then enter her that way. The added pressure will feel great to both of you.
In addition to, or instead of, all of the above, you may want to consider adding sex toys to your repertoire. The undeserved stigma that sex toys are only for lonely people, or are somehow unsexy is slowly but surely being turned around as more and more couples discover the untapped pleasure to be found by using tools to enhance their sexual satisfaction. Prosthetic dildos can be used to increase her pleasure, and many vibrators are now being made to stimulate both partners during intercourse. You can bet she isn’t going to be thinking about you being too small if she’s incoherent with battery operated ecstasy.
Whatever you decide to do, remember that a lot of feeling inferior sexually is mental, and regardless of your size, as long as you’re committed to your partner’s pleasure, she’d be a fool not to feel satisfied.




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