Men and woman work differently when it comes to sex and there are some things women wish men knew but have a hard time telling them. On their own, these aren’t that big of a deal but the little things do add up. Knowing some of these tips can make the fun even better for both of you. Here are a couple of things that your partner doesn’t want to tell you but wishes you knew.
One of the most overlooked things is to make sure she is wet. Yes, she may be all ready to go, but the outside of her vagina may not be wet yet. Before you stick something dry into it, get it wet. Add some saliva and moisten the outside edges with your finger to get to the wetness that is waiting inside. Pre-moistening like this makes those first moments you slide in as good for her as they are for you.
While thanking your partner for services rendered seems like a good idea it just makes them feel cheap. It is important that you show her that it was appreciated but do that by making happy sounds or saying how much you appreciated something specific. There are many ways to show her how good it felt without saying the words ‘Thank You.’
Be mindful of when you orgasm. If you orgasm too soon then it is just really just frustrating for the woman. How would you feel if you didn’t get a chance to cum? If it is a continuous problem get some medical help to address it. Just make sure she has her orgasm before you do. On the other hand going too long is almost just as bad. A woman wants you to cum when she does. Once she orgasms she is likely done and the longer you take to get there the more frustrating it can be for her. Remember that even though she doesn’t physically have to stop when she orgasms, like most men, she still may want to.
Don’t forget to check in on other erogenous zones from time to time. The neck and ears on a woman are extremely sensitive and a great turn on. Nibbling or kissing the neck will get your girl hot and bothered in no time. Remember to alternate locations and take advantage of all her body parts and skin surfaces.
Although the nipple is front and center on the breast, don’t forget that the rest of the breast wants some attention too. Working your way to the nipple is a great way to build anticipation and can get your woman moaning for you to reach your destination. Try some different things and see what she seems to like the best.
Woman will try almost anything if they feel safe and respected. If there is something you want to try that is out of her comfort zone give her a chance to warm up to it and you will be surprised what may happen.
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