Spicing up your sex life is something of a vague directive. After all, the level you most want to reach often depends on what level you’re operating on. Let’s assume, for the purposes of this exercise, that you’re not too adventurous at the moment, things have settled into something of a rut, or you’re simply interested in shaking things up.

First, let’s get something straight: your sex life can become stagnant and in need of CPR at any stage – from your third date to your fortieth wedding anniversary, there’s always the chance that you’ll neglect something, or not communicate properly, and dig yourself into a rut.

The good news is, getting out of a sexual rut is easier than you might think, particularly if both partners are willing to put a little work and open mindedness into it.

Here are a few ideas you can borrow from directly, or use as inspiration for a spicy affair all your own!

If you haven’t been communicating lately, make a game out of talking. Read aloud to each other from erotic literature, play games that involve telling intimate fantasies, and be sure to ask questions of each other about turn-ons. You could pretend you’re interviewing your wife for a spread in Playboy – be as inventive and outrageous as you can!

Use your computer or cell phone to send sexy written messages! When your spouse is away, use technology to tease each other all day long. Write out fantasies, promises, secrets, and titillating situations to delight and entice your lover home. It’ll keep you both so revved up that when you meet up back at the house you’ll be desperate for each other. Warning: this has been known to inspire an afternoon delight.

Set up a visit to the toy store. Just like when we were kids, we still like nothing better than a new toy to play with, it’s just time to trade in Barbie and G.I. Joe for something a little naughtier. Get dressed up, have a nice dinner, see a movie, whatever you enjoy doing together, then swing by the local sex toys shop together, or, if you don’t feel brave enough, pick something out together at home from an online sex toys shop and have it shipped. You can end the evening by opening the box together and experimenting.

Decide to try different sex positions for, say, a week – every time you have sex, no copying the same position twice. Use different sex toys with different positions, until you find something that works best for you! You get the benefit of feeling adventurous and trying things you may never have tried otherwise, and who knows? You could find out something about yourself that could be a gift that keeps on giving!

You can do a sexy striptease dance, cook his favorite meal to tantalize all his senses, give her a sensuous foot massage like you’re her private slave. Just take a little time to appreciate each other and the spice will keep on cooking!

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