Let’s face it, girls: keeping your husband happy isn’t always the number one priority it should be. We’re busy, life keeps us busy, and his needs can often fall by the wayside. However, you don’t necessarily have to invest a lot of time into keeping the hubby happy, so long as the time you do invest is quality time.
Ask him what he likes.
Trust me when I say most guys are more than happy to tell you – in detail – exactly what they do and don’t like that you’re doing, and what they’d like you to do. See if what he likes is something you’d be willing to do, and if so, that leads us to-
Wish fulfillment.
You’re his genie in a bottle. Once a month, grant any sexual wish he has – and it can be anything from a physical act to a naughty story or something he wants you to wear. Be creative and have as much fun with it as he will. You can even invest in a few cheap scarves to strategically place in order to bring the genie image to life.
He likes to watch.
Men are visual and they like looking at naked women. Most men, whether they admit it or not, like watching porn because it’s human nature to be interested in watching other people have sex. The only thing better is watching the woman they love, love herself. If you don’t already have a vibrator, go buy one – any color, any size, any type. Something you’ll like that he’ll like watching you use. Lock the door, make him sit in a chair and tell him not to touch – he’s just been granted an all access pass to his own private peep show.
Incorporate sex play into mundane chores.
Nobody likes to mow the lawn or clean the gutters or finally get around to fixing that broken shelf in the cabinet. So why not make things a little more interesting? Tell hubby he’s your personal slave and that you want him to earn the right to please you tonight – he can prove himself to you by doing chores, and you’ll reward him handsomely later on. Keep it light and fun, and soon you’ll both be looking forward to bedtime!
He works hard all day.
Does he have a physically demanding job? Maybe mentally demanding? If so, offer him a back rub. It can get you in the mood, or serve as a means to an end all by itself, but it’s guaranteed to make him feel loved and appreciated.
These are all general suggestions – you know your husband better than anyone else. Does he have a favorite sports team? Television show? TiVo it and give him a foot rub while he’s watching. Buy something in his favorite color and wear it for him. And remember, for most husbands, if you’re turned on, he’s going to be turned on, too.
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