Ask any single lady out there what her best friend is, and she’ll tell you it’s that certain something she keeps in a drawer. And if she doesn’t, she’s probably lying, or enjoys special time with her showerhead.
Where women vary is in what type of ‘friend’ they prefer to keep on hand at all times. The top two most popular sex toys for women are the dildo, and the vibrator. (For argument’s sake, let’s not get into vibrating dildos for the time being, as that’s a horse of a different color.) Determining which you are depends on what thoughts and sensations float your boat.
Most women can be sexually described as a vibrator gal, or a dildo gal. Usually vibrator gals prefer clitoral stimulation, and lots of it! Toys that include bullets, waterproof massagers, and remote controlled hands-free devices would fall into this category. Because there’s not a lot of work involved if you don’t want there to be, many women find fantasizing while using a vibrator much easier. You can simply lie back, close your eyes, and let your nerve endings be delighted to your heart’s content.
There’s also the added benefit of those vibrators designed for use with a significant other. They can enhance intercourse, rather than simply serving as masturbatory aids, and they can do it in an unobtrusive manner that heightens pleasure without detracting from the very real, very human act taking place.
Ironically, women who consider their favorite dildo to be their best friend might say the same holds true for them: that the feel and weight of the dildo more closely resembles that of a real penis and makes fantasizing easier for them. Many dildos come with suction cup bases that allow for mounting on a variety of services. A woman who is more tactile may find this a more intuitive masturbatory experience as it allows her to be hands free.
Dildos vary in shapes and sizes, and some women also argue they enjoy a ridiculous dildo in an insane color because they don’t want it to feel exactly like sex with a man would. The reason they enjoy masturbating is because it gives them a different sexual experience than they would have with a partner, and they like it.
However it is accomplished, fantasizing is incredibly important to women when they masturbate, and the tools they use to make it happen can be as important to the process as their fantasy material of choice. Which sex toy a woman likes best can also affect which fantasy she chooses to indulge in with her bedside best friend. If the sensation doesn’t match the fantasy the whole experience can be compromised.
Whichever sex toy gets the job done, it’s a well regarded fact that your favorite toy is the best friend you’ll ever have.
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